Hi,
with your "social.php" the header of the social profile is hidden, so the buttons are still available.
You can add in social.php override buttons that trigger there hidden buttons (with javascript) like:
<a href="#" id="add_friend" class="btn btn-xs btn-default">Add as Friend</a>
<a href="#" id="send_message" class="btn btn-xs btn-default">Send a Message</a>
<script>
jQuery(document).ready(function(){
jQuery('#add_friend').click(function(){
jQuery("#cover [href*='friends']").click();
});
jQuery('#send_message').click(function(){
jQuery("#cover [href*='conversations']").click();
});
});
</script>
you can this code in your social.php after line 62